Kandi Burruss wants everyone to know … divorce does not always = war, at least when it comes to hers.

Kandi shared a photo of her fam for Thanksgiving, and noticeably absent was her estranged husband, Todd Tucker. So, on the surface you’d think there were hard feelings, but Kandi wrote in a comment, “Before anyone assumes anything Todd came earlier to eat with us but he wasn’t there for the pic. He was not left out or anything like that.”

A good time was apparently had by all, according to the former ‘Real Housewife’ … the post was captioned, “Happy Thanksgiving. I truly enjoyed my day with my fam. I hope you enjoyed yours! Now I feel stuffed like a turkey & need to lay down. ❤️🦃”

TMZ reported the former couple split a few months back, after growing apart for some time. We’re also told there’s “legitimately no drama.”